Monthly Archive for January, 2002

Philemon 1:25

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Philemon1: 25 “The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen.”



The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen

This is the customary salutation by Paul.  He emphasizes “grace” in his salutations.  Paul began with “grace” (verse 3) and he ends with “grace.”

Ga 6: 18 “Brethren, the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen.”

Ph 4:23 “The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all. Amen.”

The word “our” unites the readers and the greeters in one corps of faith.  They have the common spiritual bond of “the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ.”  It is our Lord Jesus Christ who bestows grace on us. 

Philemon needed the grace of God to forgive Onesimus.  It was not possible for Philemon to do this in his own power. 

The New Testament does not record the outcome of Paul’s appeal to Philemon for Onesimus.  We know that the Roman Empire released Paul from prison so we presume that he kept his word and went to Colosse.



PRINCIPLE:  God’s grace sustains us in any situation.



God’s grace is available to us all.  We need it to sustain our Christian lives.  Grace provision in Jesus Christ is sufficient to meet any need we have for living the Christian life.

Philemon 1:24b

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Philemon 1: 24 “…as do Mark, Aristarchus, Demas, Luke, my fellow laborers.”



Aristarchus,

Colossians 4:10 mentions Aristarchus with Mark.  Aristarchus was a fellow prisoner with Paul.  He was a Macedonian (Ac 19:29) who lived in Thessalonica (Ac 27:2) and a close associate with Paul.  He went with Paul on his collection mission to Rome. 

Ac 19: 29 “So the whole city was filled with confusion, and rushed into the theater with one accord, having seized Gaius and Aristarchus, Macedonians, Paul’s travel companions.”

Ac 27: 2 “So, entering a ship of Adramyttium, we put to sea, meaning to sail along the coasts of Asia. Aristarchus, a Macedonian of Thessalonica, was with us.”

Demas,

Demas here is commended as a “fellow laborer” of Paul.  Later he became infamous for defecting from Paul.  Paul censured Demas in 2 Timothy 4:10 as forsaking him because he loved this present world.  However, at this point, he is Paul’s “fellow worker.”  Demas started out well but he did not finish well. 

Luke,

Luke is the “beloved physician” and evangelist.  He was a Gentile doctor and author of the gospel of Luke.  Two of this list of five wrote two of the gospels.  Luke was a constant companion of Paul and was with Paul in Rome (Co 4:14; 2 Ti 4:11).  Luke suffered many trials with Paul.  Note the “we” passages in the book of Acts (16:20,21,27,28).  This indicates that Luke was with Paul on his second missionary journey.  He was also with Paul in Jerusalem (Ac 20:6) and on the voyage to Rome (Ac 27).  He was with Paul in Paul’s final imprisonment (2 Ti 4:11). 

my fellow laborers

These last four people were Paul’s “fellow laborers.”  These were people engaged in the cause of Christ.  They all knew Philemon personally. 

Notice the words “fellow laborer” (v. 1), “fellow soldier”(v. 2), “fellow prisoner” (v. 23) and “fellow laborers” in this verse.  Paul is interested in companionship in ministry. 



PRINCIPLE:  God uses teams to do His work. 



APPLICATION:  God uses teams to accomplish ministry.  Some of us are so independent that we cannot work with anyone.  What are you doing shoulder to shoulder with someone else to do the work of Christ? 

Mark started poorly but ended well.  Demas started well but ended poorly.  It is important to finish our service for Jesus Christ well. 

Philemon 1:24

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Philemon1: 24 “…as do Mark, Aristarchus, Demas, Luke, my fellow laborers.”



as do Mark,

Mark was the nephew of Barnabas (Co 4:10; Ac 12:12).  His mother Mary had a large house in

Jerusalem where the church assembled for prayer (Ac 12).  Barnabas was the brother of Mary.  Peter led Mark to Christ (1 Pe 5:13). 

Paul and Mark had a sever falling out (Ac 15:38-40; 2 Ti 4:11) because Mark wanted to go home to his mother.  He found the going rough.  Missionary work was too difficult for him.  His first attempt at missions was a complete failure.  When Barnabas later attempted to take Mark again on a missionary journey, Paul would have none of it, “Mark is not going this time.”  As a result of this, a great schism occurred between Paul and Barnabas.  Paul took Silas instead of Barnabas.  Barnabas parted ways with Paul and took Mark on a separate way. 

Later, Mark grew in maturity and by the writing of Colossians and Philemon.  Paul and Peter both affirm the value of Mark in ministry. 

John Mark made good on his second attempt.  He finished strong.  One indication of this is that Mark’s name is listed here.  Mark himself is a reminder of the forgiveness that Philemon needs to extend to Onesimus. 

2 Ti 4: 11 “Only Luke is with me. Get Mark and bring him with you, for he is useful to me for ministry.”

1 Peter 5: 13 “She who is in Babylon, elect together with you, greets you; and so does Mark my son.”



PRINCIPLE:  God is a God of second chances. 



APPLICATION:  Some of us do not start out well but we end well and that is what counts.  When it comes to Christian work, it does not matter as much how poorly you begin, what really counts is how well you finish.   The score at half time is not nearly important as the score at the end of the game.

If we do not have tenacity in ministry, we will become cynical, critical, negative and bitter.  If God leads us into ministry, we must love people, including our detractors.  We understand that our critics keep us from pride.

How many people go into the ministry and do not make it the first time?  They are of sensitive spirits and people hurt them.  Criticism beats them down and they become discouraged and leave the ministry.  Then God gives them a second chance.  In their second ministry, God uses them together in a marvelous way.  Jonah was a failure the first time out but God gave him a second chance.  God is the God of second chances. 

Do you have the caliber of character not to hold a grudge against someone who hurt you in the past?  Can you let past injuries go by the boards? 

Philemon 1:23

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Philemon1: 23 “Epaphras, my fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus, greets you…”



We come now to the conclusion of Philemon (23-25).  We find greetings from five people: Epaphras, Mark, Aristarchus, Demas and Luke.  One of these was a fellow prisoner (Epaphras) while the other four were “fellow workers.”  All these people are mentioned in Colossians 4:10-16. 

Co 4: 7 “Tychicus, a beloved brother, faithful minister, and fellow servant in the Lord, will tell you all the news about me. 8 I am sending him to you for this very purpose, that he may know your circumstances and comfort your hearts, 9 with Onesimus, a faithful and beloved brother, who is one of you. They will make known to you all things which are happening here. 10 Aristarchus my fellow prisoner greets you, with Mark the cousin of Barnabas (about whom you received instructions: if he comes to you, welcome him), 11 and Jesus who is called Justus. These are my only fellow workers for the kingdom of God who are of the circumcision; they have proved to be a comfort to me. 12 Epaphras, who is one of you, a bondservant of Christ, greets you, always laboring fervently for you in prayers, that you may stand perfect and complete in all the will of God. 13 For I bear him witness that he has a great zeal for you, and those who are in Laodicea, and those in Hierapolis. 14 Luke the beloved physician and Demas greet you. 15 Greet the brethren who are in Laodicea, and Nymphas and the church that is in his house.”

Epaphras,

The New Testament mentions Epaphras three times.  He was the founder of the church at Colosse and the catalyst for evangelism in the Lycus Valley.  Paul probably led him to Christ.  Philemon knew him well.  Colosse was Philemon’s hometown.  Paul made two references to Epaphras in the book of Colossians.  

Co 1: 7 “…as you also learned from Epaphras, our dear fellow servant, who is a faithful minister of Christ on your behalf, 8 who also declared to us your love in the Spirit.”

Co 4: 12Epaphras, who is one of you, a bondservant of Christ, greets you, always laboring fervently for you in prayers, that you may stand perfect and complete in all the will of God. 13 For I bear him witness that he has a great zeal for you, and those who are in Laodicea, and those in Hierapolis.”

Epaphras fervently prayed for the Colossian church.  He prayed for their maturity (stand perfect and complete) in Christ. 

my fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus,

Epaphras was in jail with Paul in Rome.  He was Paul’s cellmate.  The church at Colosse may have sent Epaphras to Rome to minister to Paul in jail and while there he was imprisoned as well. 

“In Christ Jesus” indicates Paul’s constant connection that his imprisonments were related to the person of Christ. 

greets you

Epaphras sends his salutation to Philemon and church family.  Greeting is an issue of courtesy and respect. 

1 Pt. 3: 8 “Finally, all of you be of one mind, having compassion for one another; love as brothers, be tenderhearted, be courteous…”



PRINCIPLE:  Prayer for the maturity of a local church is the responsibility of especially the pastor but also of everyone in that church. 



APPLICATION:  Prayer for the maturity of a given local church is an often-overlooked prayer.  Maybe this is the reason why so many churches struggle.  They fight over the least situation.  They have very few Christians who can stand above the fray and operate on biblical norms.  Are you praying for the maturity of your church? 

Philemon 1:22

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Philemon1: 22 “But, meanwhile, also prepare a guest room for me, for I trust that through your prayers I shall be granted to you.”



But, meanwhile, also prepare a guest room for me,

“Guest room” is literally lodging.  This is a place for Paul to stay when he visits Colosse.  It is a personal request for hospitality. 

Ro 16: 23 “Gaius, my host and the host of the whole church, greets you. Erastus, the treasurer of the city, greets you, and Quartus, a brother.”

for I trust that through your prayers I shall be granted to you

“I shall be granted to you” implies that the Roman government will release Paul from jail shortly.  Paul initially planed to go to Spain after Rome (Ro 15:24,28).  He may have altered his plans to go back to the Lycus Valley (eastern Turkey) and visit Colosse.  That is why he looked forward to visiting the Philippian church again. 

Ph 2: 23 “Therefore I hope to send him at once, as soon as I see how it goes with me (freed from jail). 24 But I trust in the Lord that I myself shall also come shortly.”

The word “your” in “your prayers” is plural indicating that the entire church that met in Philemon’s home prayed for Paul. 



PRINCIPLE:  God answers intercessory prayer. 



APPLICATION:  Paul depended on the prayers of fellow believers and we need to do the same.  Peter was delivered from jail because of intercessory prayer of the saints. 

Ph 1: 19 “For I know that this will turn out for my deliverance (from jail) through your prayer and the supply of the Spirit of Jesus Christ…”

Philemon 1:21

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Philemon1: 21 “Having confidence in your obedience, I write to you, knowing that you will do even more than I say.”



Having confidence in your obedience,

Paul had confidence that Philemon would treat Onesimus well.  The word “obedience” is a stronger word than his more indirect previous appeals.  This “obedience” is not to a command of Paul but to the will of God.  Paul understood something about Philemon’s commitment to the will of God. 

I write to you,

The freedom of Onesimus is the purpose of the epistle to Philemon. 

knowing that you will do even more than I say

Paul anticipated that Philemon would do more than his request to forgive Onesimus and refresh the apostle Paul.  Paul’s high view and expectation of Philemon is further motivation to Philemon. 

Is 32: 8 “But a generous man devises generous things,

And by generosity he shall stand.”

The “more than I say” may imply that Philemon will free Onesimus and maybe even permit him to go back to Rome to minister to the apostle Paul.  Grace always goes beyond duty. 



PRINCIPLE:  Grace goes beyond duty. 



APPLICATION:  Grace is always magnanimous and far-reaching.  It goes beyond duty and necessity.  Grace always has its root in the believer’s volition.  Grace does not need coercion to motivate it.  It does what it does because of God’s grace in the heart. 

Confidence in others leaves them with an opportunity to do more than what is necessary.  Confidence does not preclude the responsibility of addressing concerns we might have about their future action. 

It is wise to trust God’s people.  This is the appeal of expectancy.  Having high expectations from God’s people will result in mutual trust and effective ministry. 

Philemon 1:20

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Philemon1: 20 “Yes, brother, let me have joy from you in the Lord; refresh my heart in the Lord.”



Yes, brother,

Paul requests an affirmative action from Philemon.  He expects a “yes” from Philemon. 

let me have joy from you in the Lord;

The apostle Paul will have “joy” if Philemon forgives Onesimus.  Joy” here is literally profit.  The name Onesimus means profit so this may be a play on words on his name.  If Philemon forgives Onesimus, that will be profitable for Paul. 

Paul loved both master and slave.  He uses entreaty to appeal to Philemon and not a command.  He does not use coercion but appeals on a personal basis. 

refresh my heart in the Lord

Philemon was known for refreshing the saints (v. 7).  Now he has a chance to refresh the apostle Paul.  The words “me” and “my” are emphatic in the Greek.  Paul says, “Philemon, you have blessed many others, would you bless me this time?  If you deal kindly with Onesimus, you will bless me and refresh me.  I seem to plead for Onesimus but I am beseeching for myself as well.” 

Ministry should always be “in the Lord” (cf. v. 16).  We do it for the Lord and in His power.  This is the polar opposite for ministering in self-interest.  This is the fellowship of ministry.  Philemon’s release of Onesimus will refresh Paul and advance the cause of Christ. 



PRINCIPLE:  God expects us to bless other people.



APPLICATION:  Some of us cannot teach or preach but we can be a blessing to others.  Ask God to show you how you can personally bless others.  We used to sing, “Make me a blessing.”  In an age of self-centeredness we need a modern song with the same idea. 

Ga 6: 10  Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all, especially to those who are of the household of faith!”

He 6: 10  “For God is not unjust to forget your work and labor of love which you have shown toward His name, in that you have ministered to the saints, and do minister.”

Be a blessing to the family of God, to the household of faith.  Many of us look for a blessing for ourselves rather than be a blessing to others.  Let us pray, “Lord, help me take the load off someone today.”  People around us have much deeper problems than we know.  It is our opportunity to discover where people hurt and help them. 

Problems come in different packages.  Some are financial, some personal and some family.  If we spread some sunshine in their lives, it will make their load lighter.  This is the ministry of “refreshing” others. 

Philemon 1:19

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Philemon1: 19 “I, Paul, am writing with my own hand. I will repay—not to mention to you that you owe me even your own self besides.”



I, Paul, am writing with my own hand.

Paul placed himself under legal contract by writing with his own hand.  This is equivalent to a personal autograph.  Paul puts his signature to the book of Philemon. 

I will repay—

Paul says, “I will make good the debt Onesimus owes you, Philemon.  I do not care about the cost.”

not to mention to you that you owe me even your own self besides

Paul speaks of restitution.  It is a just act toward Philemon to return Onesimus and pay back whatever he had stolen. 

Philemon owed a debt to Paul, his salvation.  Philemon was a man to whom Onesimus owed a debt but Philemon owed a debt as well.  Philemon’s debt was greater than Onesimus’ debt – his was an eternal debt to God.  He also owed a debt to Paul for sharing the gospel with him so Philemon had a double debt. 



PRINCIPLE:  We all are indebted to someone so we should never hold grudges against anyone. 



APPLICATION:  If someone acts unjustly toward us, we need to remember that we are debtors as well.  We owed an eternal debt we were unable to pay so none of us has the right to hold grudges against anyone. 

Philemon 1:18

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Philemon1: 18 “But if he has wronged you or owes anything, put that on my account.”



But if he has wronged you or owes anything,

Since Onesimus wronged Philemon, Paul asks Philemon to charge him with any financial loss Philemon may have incurred. 

put that on my account

Paul uses an accounting term in this phrase.  Paul does to Philemon what Christ did to Paul.  Christ paid the price for his sins.  Paul was willing to pay a price for Onesimus.  He willingly endorsed a promissory note for him.  The implication of what Paul says here is, “Put that on my credit card.” 



PRINCIPLE:  Grace gives as grace receives. 



APPLICATION:  Paul was not guilty but he was willing to pay the price for Onesimus’ guilt.  Jesus did the same for us.  Christ was the sinless Savior who bore our guilt on the cross.  This is grace.  Grace is what God does on our behalf.  Merit is what we do to gain God’s approbation. 

Is 53: 6 “All we like sheep have gone astray; We have turned, every one, to his own way;And the Lord has laid on Him the iniquity of us all.”

Jn 1: 29 “The next day John saw Jesus coming toward him, and said, ‘Behold! The Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world!’”

2 Co 5: 21 “For He made Him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.”

He 7: 25 Therefore He is also able to save to the uttermost those who come to God through Him, since He always lives to make intercession for them.”

None of us qualifies to walk in God’s presence but Jesus put His credit to our account so that we can.  We are acceptable to God in Him.  Jesus assumed our spiritual obligation. 

Christian should assume the spiritual obligation of other believers because as we received grace we should give grace to other believers.

Philemon 1:17

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Philemon1:17 “If then you count me as a partner, receive him as you would me.”



If then you count me as a partner,

Paul viewed Philemon as a partner in ministry and he assumed that Philemon felt the same way.  Paul makes a plea on the basis of their partnership and fellowship in the Lord. 

2 Co 8: 23 “If anyone inquires about Titus, he is my partner and fellow worker concerning you. Or if our brethren are inquired about, they are messengers of the churches, the glory of Christ.”

receive him as you would me

The word “receive” means welcome.  Philemon should welcome Onesimus as he would welcome Paul himself.  The word “as” measures the affection that Philemon had toward Paul.  Paul says in effect, “Credit to Onesimus any regard you have for me.  Receive him as you would receive me.”



PRINCIPLE:  Each Christian holds the same status quo before God because of Christ. 



APPLICATION:  Every Christian is complete in Christ.  We all hold the same spiritual position and status quo before God.

Ep 4: 1 “I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you to walk worthy of the calling with which you were called…”

Co 2: 9 “For in Him dwells all the fullness of the Godhead bodily; 10 and you are complete in Him, who is the head of all principality and power.”